Finding Myself On the Map to Wholeness?

37 Question Quiz

What:

This questionnaire is designed to help you to understand which phase of transformation you are experiencing now.

Directions:

Identify the response that best communicates your personal experience. It can be helpful to complete the quiz with someone who knows you very well.

QUESTIONS:

SEED

  1. My life has become very routine and lacks a zest of life. I strongly wish to have a major change in my work or home life or both.

  2. I have been unchallenged for a while and now i feel ready to have a major change, a transformation.

  3. I feel strongly about wanting to have a different life than the one I am leading.

DEPARTURE

  1. I recently took action to change my life or to do something that is likely to change my life.

  2. After a period of soul-searching I finally took action to do something I have always wanted to do or never dreamed I would do (example – marriage, start a business, reunite with family/old friend, move your place of living, end/begin a relationship, have /adopt children, buy a house, travel).

PEAK / TRAUMA

  1. I had a major life changing event (peak, mystical/spiritual, or traumatic) during the past 2-3 weeks (Example: recent diagnosis, accident, death, violation, sports triumph, graduation, birth, mystical experience)?

  2. I am currently having a life-changing experience.

RETURN

  1. In the past few weeks I had a major life changing experience (positive or negative) and it is likely to profoundly change me.

  2. I recently endured a life-changing event/experience and because of it, I am going away to make sense of it, recovering in the hospital, spending concentrated time alone, or being at home to recuperate.

DISPLACEMENT & UPHEAVAL

  1. I had a significant life changing experience and I just returned to a more typical daily routine within the past 1-3 weeks.

DENIAL & GRIEF

  1. I had a life changing experience (positive or negative) and I find it difficult to deal with my responsibilities and mundane life.

  2. I have a deep feeling of emptiness and loss; something, someone, or a lifestyle is gone/has ended and cannot be experienced again.

  3. I recently had a major life experience (positive or negative) and I find myself replaying the experience(s) over and over again in my mind/feelings.

  4. I recently had a life changing experience and I feel alone except when I am with those who have had a similar life changing experience.

  5. I recently had a life experience and I have an overwhelming sense of shock and denial—I it is hard to grasp that it really happened.

DISORIENTATION

  1. I have a sense uncertainty about the purpose of life in general, what I want, or how to proceed.

  2. I have a sense of confusion about who I am or my purpose as a result of a life-changing experience.

  3. I feel frustrated because there are real barriers between me and a better life such as: my income/resources, people in positions of power who would stop me, my gender/race, my education/training, institutional rules, politics, or societal rules.

  4. I find myself wanting to move forward towards a better life but don’t have the support or resources to do so.

DISMEMBERMENT

  1. I am having big challenges that make me feel emotionally out of control even though from the perspective of others, I usually appear to be just fine.

  2. I have a deep desire to spend time at home or alone.

  3. I describe my life right now as one of the hardest or darkest times of my life.

  4. I am having experiences that force me to see aspects of myself that I don’t easily accept.

SURRENDER & HEALING

  1. I feel like the darkest time has recently passed and that extreme turmoil has settled down enough for me to have breathing room or a bit more sense of ease.

  2. I am finally enjoying a new opportunity or person that is restoring my hope and/or happiness.

  3. I am having experiences, encounters, and/or people who surprisingly, help me to resolve old problems, hurt, or anger.

  4. I am finally in a calmer, healthier life situation.

ABUNDANCE

  1. My life is changing for the better: I am having better luck, opportunities, resources, and support than I have ever experienced before.

  2. I am working hard to meet the demands of a vision for my life that is coming true.

  3. The good fortune I am finally having financially and relationally now is beyond what I dreamed possible—I am a bit in awe.

POWER

  1. My work is successful, known by others, and running smoothly. I have become a master of my own endeavors, talents, and gifts.

  2. My life has calmed down considerably and although the pace is still demanding it is manageable because I have the right people in place to help me.

  3. I have a sense of feeling in control of my life in a way that is healthier and more life-giving than I have ever known.

  4. I am confident in who I am, what I am doing, and what I can do.

INTEGRATION

  1. I have sense of total completion and deep satisfaction that gives me the feeling that everything is “just right.”

  2. I have quite a bit of unobligated free time and I sense that what is best is simply to enjoy this time.

  3. I enjoy a lifestyle of relative ease and enjoyment after years of working hard to achieve a major life goal.